Asian Fetish? I am a korean girl, 16 in highschool and i didnt know about Aisian Fetish stuff till now. I find it a bit offensive that there are guys who would actually say they have "asian fetish" because it means they are only attracted to asians because they have a fetish, kind of like an obsession..? Now im worried that what if i meet people with asian fetish and what if they dont necessarily like me as a person. I want to ask asian girls.. what do u think of the term? because i find it offensive (racism and sexism)... and to guys out there, what do u feel about asian fetish? |
I think men are attracted to all sorts of women for all sorts of reasons. I'm attracted to asian women, some of them anyway. I'm also attracted to all sorts of other women. I have a fetish for red haired women. Fetishes are not always a bad thing, you will see that as you get older. Use them to your advantage.
Just translate from men language to women language. It just means somebody thinks you are pretty. |
Asian fetish? OK, my sister is dating a guy who has only dated one Caucasian woman before my sister. He dated tiny Asian women and she said she saw Asian porn on his computer. My sister is a very tall curvy blonde girl. She even said this guy mentioned he enjoyed picking up girls during sex. No way could he pick up my sister for long--she is not fat, just tall and curvy. I don't have anything against any race, but I am wondering if this guy has a "fetish" for a certain race. I mean, why else would he even mention it to my sister? It's not like she can get shorter and smaller, etc. Our mother is gone and I worry about her. He seems like an ok guy, and I know people fall in love with all different sorts of people, but it just seems strange that he is in his 30s and is suddenly changing his whole "type". Am I reading too much into this? I just don't want her to get hurt. |
You're definatly reading too much into it.
Just cause he enjoys time (ok, and other stuff) with Asian women, doesn't mean he's going to restrict himself just cause someone else he likes isn't Asian. |
What is the difference between true love or if it's just an Asian fetish? I've been wondering what is the difference between true love or if it's just an Asian fetish?
If it's a fetish then he surely doesn't love "you" but your race
but what difference would that make?
and how can you tell the difference? |
Very hard to tell the difference between the two to be honest. But then again love is over powering emotion, it can be shown, spoken, visualize, expressed in many different ways, while fetishes are merely desire that can only be expressed through sexual means.
A lot of White men have an Asian fetish, but not very many actually love the person they're with. They speak of women as objects and not humans. |
When a white guy dates an asian girl, why do people assume we have asian fetish? it's just some of us prefer other race rather than our own. And people assume we have asian fetish. |
Because some white guys do...
BUT a lot also just happened to just fall in love with the person they're with...So if you aren't like that, you shouldn't worry about what other people think (because you can't change their mind either way) and just date and be happy with the person you love.. |
Serious question for men: Why do men have this weird Asian fetish? I really want to know. Is it because they think Asian women will do anything and everything in the sack (that's what someone told me)? Why do you have an Asian fetish? If not, what is your fetish? |
| not all men think Asians are attractive. personally, I find Latina women to be sexier. you see, seeing white women in vast quantities in this country is like eating the same thing for dinner every night, it gets old. |
Do you find it weird, when black men have asian fetish? They mostly have white fetish. Is there any black men with asian fetish? Why is it? Are asian women not attractive to you? |
| Not at all. The last 10 guys I've dated have been black. Maybe it was a fetish for some of them. I never bothered to ask them, because I don't really care. |
I think my boyfriend may have a weird asian fetish ? I was going through my boyfriends computer to find his porn collection and when I did it was all naked asian girls and some videos of them being taken advantage of as the theme.
And now I kinda feel like I am just some fetish object to him, am I being crazy? |
| It all depends on your moral opinion. Personally, I think your boyfriend does have a sort of "asian fetish" if he only has that kind of collection on his computer. Most non-asian guys only date asian girls because they have a certain "preference" for them. I know of a lot of girls who are in this kind of situation. If you don't mind your boyfriend having an obsessive interest in your ethnicity, then there shouldn't be a lot of ethnic issues in the relationship. However, if you or bothered by the fact that he targets only asian girls when seeking a relationship, then you have to put a lot of question into whether you should stay with him or not. |
Why do some people consider it a fetish to be attracted to an Asian? It could just be attraction, not a fetish.
Asian girls are gorgeous! Japanese, Korean, Vietnamese, Filipino, Chinese...Beautiful girls! As all other races! |
It's just because lately a bunch of white guys have this "trend" of going out with Asians and so it became a fetish. If you're "truly" attracted to Asians then that doesn't necessarily mean you're part of the fetish. You should explain to people who accuse you of having the fetish.
And wtf is with the stereotypes that Asians are mainly pornstars? @Sanaz BanĂ¼: Do you not know that porn was first made famous in the USA? And look how many white guys copying porn right now and increased the teenage pregnancy rate in the US. Do you see this happening in Asian countries now? No. |
I am a white male, this definition of 'asian fetish' offended me, how about you? I am a white male, I was looking up the definition of 'asian fetish' and found this:
pedophilia masquerading as a common, non-criminally deviant sexual fetish
This offends me greatly. I'm not a pedophile, I like asian girls because they have less hair, they're small, and they look very young.
Does this definition of 'asian fetish' offend you too? |
| Indeed! |
How do I get this creepy guy who has an asian fetish to stop talking to me? There is this mentally disabled guy; he has a learning disability. He is obsessed with Japanese stuff and used to try to talk to me all the time even though I am not even Japanese... I am just asian. He keeps trying to talk to me and I don't know how to ignore him nicely. I tend to respond in a mean tone and I don't want that either. How do I get away from him? He is in a couple of my classes. |
| Tell him to back off. If he doesn't then complaint to the campus police. |