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Over the years I have heard about the phenomena of white slavery whereby yound attractive American women are .?
sold into sexual slavery overseas? I once saw a West German bulletin about a beautiful woman who they believed was sold into sexual bondage in the Middle East. Does this happen here in the states or is it an urban legend?

It happens... but they are hidden behind gangs... not found in public socieites where the girls can report themselves to the police and recover from it.

My girlfriend has a weird fetish and is it a type of bondage fetish?
My girlfriend has a fetish of seeing beautiful women on a stage or anywhere "Getting the Hook"
You know the term from vaudeville where an act would do a goofy song and dance and a
over-sized cane would grab that person off the stage. She said she used to see shows and
commercials where a hook would grab a guy and sometimes a girl and yank them off. And she
would get aroused seeing only girls getting the hook. But she is not a lesbian shes only been
with men. But she has also drew or even made pictures of a playboy model type and make it
appear as the girl was getting the hook. Is this some kind of bondage type fetish. I heard
of S&M but this "hook" fetish is news to me. Their is even a site on yahoo dedicated to
people that like or want to see ladies "getting the hook". I asked her if she wanted help
to get treatment for this fetish and she is toooo embarrassed to get help. I had a hunch
that she had this fetish when I saw a picture of a Jessica Simpson in her red bikini
with a cane around her waist. What do you think of her fetish and what category would
you put her fetish under. And she I try to get help for her. It is perfectly harmless to me
its just weird.

That rates about a 3.0 on the weirdness scale of 1-10 for fetishes lol. I think she has a mild bondage fetish, and perhaps she has the desire to act-out as a dominatrix with other women. This does not mean that she is a lesbian, only that she has some deep-seated need to act this out in some way. Since there is already a site devoted to "getting the hook", it's obviously a fetish shared by others. Unless it seriously interferes with your sex life, I wouldn't worry. If you are an adventurous type, perhaps you could talk to her about ways to explore this fantasy in a safe, secure environment.

Girls, please help me... Embarrassing question...?
First, I’d like to make a few things known: I am not posting this because I’m trying to be annoying. I wouldn’t post it if it didn’t really bother me. I also want to say that I’m sorry that this question is so long, and that I am the way I am. Please try to understand that it takes a lot of courage to say these things.

I’m a senior in high school, and I consider myself to be overall respectful of girls. I like them to feel appreciated and loved, and I would never force them to do anything they didn’t want. I myself have only ever had one girlfriend, for two and a half months during my sophomore year. What I want to tell you, however, will completely contradict what I’ve just said. As is expected of a boy/man, I have had a lot of… urges. Ever since I learned what these urges were for, I have always had these provocative images in my mind. These images are usually of beautiful women in some type of bondage, a consensual kind of sexual slavery or being punished with an instrument of sorts (use your imagination…).

For the longest time, I thought that these were just some hot images, but at the same time, I look at these images and think, “You should not be thinking about these things. Girls deserve better than that; particularly from you.” Despite this, I kept on thinking about them until a week or so ago, when I had another of those thoughts. This time was different. Instead of an urge, I just felt a pang of guilt. I didn’t want to think about these things anymore. I started to feel woozy and sick to my stomach, and a little voice in my heart was telling me, “You’re a disgrace to the whole human race; the girls and women in particular.” I have only ever told a select few group of people, and I left my ex- out of it, even though we’re still good friends. I’ve always wondered since my last girlfriend and I broke up, why I can’t get another girlfriend even though everybody thinks I’m good-looking. Now, I’m starting to think that God is trying to tell me, “You don’t deserve a girlfriend, you filthy deviant,” by keeping me single. (I’m not trying to say that God is in the wrong. I just think it might be a sign of some sort.) I mean, last week, I learned that a girl I like became single again, and then I had an unclean thought, and the next day, she got back together with her ex-boyfriend.

The more I think about this, the filthier I feel. I feel like a misogynistic monster. I feel like I’ve disrespected every girl and woman on the planet whenever I think of these things… and even if I haven’t, I don’t think there are very many girls in this world who would be open to something of that nature, let alone trying it with me. I think that maybe I’m meant to understand that I don’t deserve a girlfriend.

As if that isn’t enough, I’m also scared of what I would be like as a lover, if I ever become a boyfriend again. I get scared that I’ll do something bad or something stupid. I’m afraid if I just do it normally, I’d be so bad that my partner would never want to have it again, and that if I bring it up, the girl I finally end up with won’t want to have anything to do with me again.

And knowing all of this, how can I be a good boyfriend, lover or whatever, with all of this running through my head? Am I doomed to loneliness and sadness because I think like a pig? What do you guys think about all of this? Long answers are more than welcome.

You aren't the only person in the world who finds images like that arousing, or disgusting.
If you feel so bad after thinking about these things, just remember, they're only in your head. If they disgust you that much then just remember, you're not hurting anyone unless you act upon your "urges"
Don't let it get you down, I can tell you if my boyfriend was that much into bondage, I would be a much happier girl.
Don't let it rule your life either man, just don't. If you worry about what these urges will mean in the bedroom, if you catch my drift, then they will have a detrimental effect on your love life, especially if the urges themselves make you feel sick.
Just go with the flow, and if you find a girl who's into bondage and things, she is one lucky woman.

Please only serious answers. Embarassing question. Sorry it's so long...?
First, I’d like to make a few things known: I am not posting this because I’m trying to be annoying. I wouldn’t post it if it didn’t really bother me. I also want to say that I’m sorry that this question is so long, and that I am the way I am. Please try to understand that it takes a lot of courage to say these things.

I’m a senior in high school, and I consider myself to be overall respectful of girls. I like them to feel appreciated and loved, and I would never force them to do anything they didn’t want. I myself have only ever had one girlfriend, for two and a half months during my sophomore year. What I want to tell you, however, will completely contradict what I’ve just said. As is expected of a boy/man, I have had a lot of… urges. Ever since I learned what these urges were for, I have always had these provocative images in my mind. These images are usually of beautiful women in some type of bondage, a consensual kind of sexual slavery or being punished with an instrument of sorts (use your imagination…).

For the longest time, I thought that these were just some hot images, but at the same time, I look at these images and think, “You should not be thinking about these things. Girls deserve better than that; particularly from you.” Despite this, I kept on thinking about them until a week or so ago, when I had another of those thoughts. This time was different. Instead of an urge, I just felt a pang of guilt. I didn’t want to think about these things anymore. I started to feel woozy and sick to my stomach, and a little voice in my heart was telling me, “You’re a disgrace to the whole human race; the girls and women in particular.” I have only ever told a select few group of people, and I left my ex- out of it, even though we’re still good friends. I’ve always wondered since my last girlfriend and I broke up, why I can’t get another girlfriend even though everybody thinks I’m good-looking. Now, I’m starting to think that God is trying to tell me, “You don’t deserve a girlfriend, you filthy deviant,” by keeping me single. (I’m not trying to say that God is in the wrong. I just think it might be a sign of some sort.) I mean, not long ago, I learned that a girl I like became single again, and then I had an unclean thought, and the next day, she got back together with her ex-boyfriend.

The worst part about this is, whether I resist my urges or not, they come back even stronger than they were before. But they’re not all good. I had an urge one time in the middle of a lecture, and it just made me feel sick to my stomach because my emotions somehow registered physically. I had to resist the urge to run out of the room and vomit. I know this is disgusting, but it’s no less revolting to me than to you.

The more I think about this, the filthier I feel. But no matter how filthy I feel, I still want it, and that disgusts me. I feel like a misogynistic monster. I feel like I’ve disrespected every girl and woman on the planet whenever I think of these things… and even if I haven’t, I don’t think there are very many girls in this world who would be open to something of that nature, let alone trying it with me. I think that maybe I’m meant to understand that I don’t deserve a girlfriend.

As if that isn’t enough, I’m also scared of what I would be like as a lover, if I ever become a boyfriend again. I get scared that I’ll do something bad or something stupid. I’m afraid if I just do it normally, I’d be so bad that my partner would never want to have it again, and that if I bring it up, the girl I finally end up with won’t want to have anything to do with me again.

And knowing all of this, how can I be a good boyfriend, lover or whatever, with all of this running through my head? Am I doomed to loneliness and sadness because I think like a pig? Am I a monster? Why am I like this? What do you guys think about all of this? Long answers are more than welcome.

Fyi... Sexual slavery is not alwayz a bad thing... Many of us like it...lol thatz why there's sex toy stores... Where thy sell chains... Handcuffz.. Whips.. Etc. Etc. Maybe u feel sick in ur tummy because us woman are seen as sweet and delicate.. But sum of us can hav a wild side... ;] haha my view on this wud be.. Dnt think too much on it... Sum guys like kinky... And it OK!! Dnt punish urself for ur sexual desires... Rather find the girl who is willing to fufill all ur sexual fantasies.... And teach u a trick or two haha.. Good luck!! (: (:

Please answer seriously... sorry it's so long... long answers welcome...?
First, I’d like to make a few things known: I am not posting this because I’m trying to be annoying. I wouldn’t post it if it didn’t really bother me. I also want to say that I’m sorry that this question is so long, and that I am the way I am. Please try to understand that it takes a lot of courage to say these things.

I’m a senior in high school, and I consider myself to be overall respectful of girls. I like them to feel appreciated and loved, and I would never force them to do anything they didn’t want. I myself have only ever had one girlfriend, for two and a half months during my sophomore year. What I want to tell you, however, will completely contradict what I’ve just said. As is expected of a boy/man, I have had a lot of… urges. Ever since I learned what these urges were for, I have always had these provocative images in my mind. These images are usually of beautiful women in some type of bondage, a consensual kind of sexual slavery or being punished with an instrument of sorts (use your imagination…).

For the longest time, I thought that these were just some hot images, but at the same time, I look at these images and think, “You should not be thinking about these things. Girls deserve better than that; particularly from you.” Despite this, I kept on thinking about them until a week or so ago, when I had another of those thoughts. This time was different. Instead of an urge, I just felt a pang of guilt. I didn’t want to think about these things anymore. I started to feel woozy and sick to my stomach, and a little voice in my heart was telling me, “You’re a disgrace to the whole human race; the girls and women in particular.” I have only ever told a select few group of people, and I left my ex- out of it, even though we’re still good friends. I’ve always wondered since my last girlfriend and I broke up, why I can’t get another girlfriend even though everybody thinks I’m good-looking. Now, I’m starting to think that God is trying to tell me, “You don’t deserve a girlfriend, you filthy deviant,” by keeping me single. (I’m not trying to say that God is in the wrong. I just think it might be a sign of some sort.) I mean, not long ago, I learned that a girl I like became single again, and then I had an unclean thought, and the next day, she got back together with her ex-boyfriend.

The worst part about this is, whether I resist my urges or not, they come back even stronger than they were before. But they’re not all good. I had an urge one time in the middle of a lecture, and it just made me feel sick to my stomach because my emotions somehow registered physically. I had to resist the urge to run out of the room and vomit. I know this is disgusting, but it’s no less revolting to me than to you.

They don't take long to return, either. Only about an hour or two.

The more I think about this, the filthier I feel. But no matter how filthy I feel, I still want it, and that disgusts me. I feel like a misogynistic monster. I feel like I’ve disrespected every girl and woman on the planet whenever I think of these things… and even if I haven’t, I don’t think there are very many girls in this world who would be open to something of that nature, let alone trying it with me. I think that maybe I’m meant to understand that I don’t deserve a girlfriend.

As if that isn’t enough, I’m also scared of what I would be like as a lover, if I ever become a boyfriend again. I get scared that I’ll do something bad or something stupid. I’m afraid if I just do it normally, I’d be so bad that my partner would never want to have it again, and that if I bring it up, the girl I finally end up with won’t want to have anything to do with me again.

And knowing all of this, how can I be a good boyfriend, lover or whatever, with all of this running through my head? Am I doomed to loneliness and sadness because I think like a pig? Am I a monster? Why am I like this? What do you guys think about all of this? Long answers are more than welcome.

There is nothing wrong with you. You are not a monster. You just have either a fetish or a kink for Bondage and Domination. This is not disgusting and doesn't make you a pig. There are plenty of women who enjoy being tied up and being submissive. As long as it is safe and consensual, it can be fun and very pleasurable. It is completely healthy. Your sexual interest have no influence on whether or not you would be a good boyfriend. You sound like a sweet guy, who truly cares about the women he dates (or potentially will date). The only thing you should do is find a women who shares your same kinks or is willing to try it out. As long as you don't force a woman to do anything that she is not comfortable with, you are fine. Good luck!

Girls, I need help... very embarassing question...?
First, I’d like to make a few things known: I am not posting this because I’m trying to be annoying. I wouldn’t post it if it didn’t really bother me. I also want to say that I’m sorry that this question is so long, and that I am the way I am. Please try to understand that it takes a lot of courage to say these things.

I’m a senior in high school, and I consider myself to be overall respectful of girls. I like them to feel appreciated and loved, and I would never force them to do anything they didn’t want. I myself have only ever had one girlfriend, for two and a half months during my sophomore year. What I want to tell you, however, will completely contradict what I’ve just said. As is expected of a boy/man, I have had a lot of… urges. Ever since I learned what these urges were for, I have always had these provocative images in my mind. These images are usually of beautiful women in some type of bondage, a consensual kind of sexual slavery or being punished with an instrument of sorts (use your imagination…).

For the longest time, I thought that these were just some hot images, but at the same time, I look at these images and think, “You should not be thinking about these things. Girls deserve better than that; particularly from you.” Despite this, I kept on thinking about them until a week or so ago, when I had another of those thoughts. This time was different. Instead of an urge, I just felt a pang of guilt. I didn’t want to think about these things anymore. I started to feel woozy and sick to my stomach, and a little voice in my heart was telling me, “You’re a disgrace to the whole human race; the girls and women in particular.” I have only ever told a select few group of people, and I left my ex- out of it, even though we’re still good friends. I’ve always wondered since my last girlfriend and I broke up, why I can’t get another girlfriend even though everybody thinks I’m good-looking. Now, I’m starting to think that God is trying to tell me, “You don’t deserve a girlfriend, you filthy deviant,” by keeping me single. (I’m not trying to say that God is in the wrong. I just think it might be a sign of some sort.) I mean, last week, I learned that a girl I like became single again, and then I had an unclean thought, and the next day, she got back together with her ex-boyfriend.

The more I think about this, the filthier I feel. I feel like a misogynistic monster. I feel like I’ve disrespected every girl and woman on the planet whenever I think of these things… and even if I haven’t, I don’t think there are very many girls in this world who would be open to something of that nature, let alone trying it with me. I think that maybe I’m meant to understand that I don’t deserve a girlfriend.

As if that isn’t enough, I’m also scared of what I would be like as a lover, if I ever become a boyfriend again. I get scared that I’ll do something bad or something stupid. I’m afraid if I just do it normally, I’d be so bad that my partner would never want to have it again, and that if I bring it up, the girl I finally end up with won’t want to have anything to do with me again.

And knowing all of this, how can I be a good boyfriend, lover or whatever, with all of this running through my head? Am I doomed to loneliness and sadness because I think like a pig? What do you guys think about all of this? Long answers are more than welcome.

This is called "puberty"
It seems that your hormones are acting up, and when your hormones are acting up you have sexual urges or thoughts in your mind. You become curious. Don't worry, you are not alone. You are one of the millions of teenage boys that think about sex. There's nothing wrong, no! God does not think of you as worthless or looks down on you in anyway! You should have an award for possibly being the only senior boy that treats girls with such respect and care! Do not feel bad about these ''thoughts''. It's human nature. It is life. Don't beat yourself up for such a thing.

And, your crush?
It seems that she's going through an on-off relationship. You are not cursed by God! You are just feeling paranoid.
Also. If you want to get a girlfriend...
Well I'm sorry but I'm going to be brutally honest! You sound like a young gentlemen, but you seem like a push-over. Girls like a challenge! I'm not saying don't treat them with respect, but if you want to have a girl-friend you need to have more confidence!
Loosen up a bit! You have good looks don't you? Use them!
Girls think that confidence is sexy :)

Please help me... embarassing question... serious answers only...?
First, I’d like to make a few things known: I am not posting this because I’m trying to be annoying. I wouldn’t post it if it didn’t really bother me. I also want to say that I’m sorry that this question is so long, and that I am the way I am. Please try to understand that it takes a lot of courage to say these things.

I’m a senior in high school, and I consider myself to be overall respectful of girls. I like them to feel appreciated and loved, and I would never force them to do anything they didn’t want. I myself have only ever had one girlfriend, for two and a half months during my sophomore year. What I want to tell you, however, will completely contradict what I’ve just said. As is expected of a boy/man, I have had a lot of… urges. Ever since I learned what these urges were for, I have always had these provocative images in my mind. These images are usually of beautiful women in some type of bondage, a consensual kind of sexual slavery or being punished with an instrument of sorts (use your imagination…).

For the longest time, I thought that these were just some hot images, but at the same time, I look at these images and think, “You should not be thinking about these things. Girls deserve better than that; particularly from you.” Despite this, I kept on thinking about them until a week or so ago, when I had another of those thoughts. This time was different. Instead of an urge, I just felt a pang of guilt. I didn’t want to think about these things anymore. I started to feel woozy and sick to my stomach, and a little voice in my heart was telling me, “You’re a disgrace to the whole human race; the girls and women in particular.” I have only ever told a select few group of people, and I left my ex- out of it, even though we’re still good friends. I’ve always wondered since my last girlfriend and I broke up, why I can’t get another girlfriend even though everybody thinks I’m good-looking. Now, I’m starting to think that God is trying to tell me, “You don’t deserve a girlfriend, you filthy deviant,” by keeping me single. (I’m not trying to say that God is in the wrong. I just think it might be a sign of some sort.) I mean, last week, I learned that a girl I like became single again, and then I had an unclean thought, and the next day, she got back together with her ex-boyfriend.

The more I think about this, the filthier I feel. I feel like a misogynistic monster. I feel like I’ve disrespected every girl and woman on the planet whenever I think of these things… and even if I haven’t, I don’t think there are very many girls in this world who would be open to something of that nature, let alone trying it with me. I think that maybe I’m meant to understand that I don’t deserve a girlfriend.

As if that isn’t enough, I’m also scared of what I would be like as a lover, if I ever become a boyfriend again. I get scared that I’ll do something bad or something stupid. I’m afraid if I just do it normally, I’d be so bad that my partner would never want to have it again, and that if I bring it up, the girl I finally end up with won’t want to have anything to do with me again.

And knowing all of this, how can I be a good boyfriend, lover or whatever, with all of this running through my head? Am I doomed to loneliness and sadness because I think like a pig? What do you guys think about all of this? Long answers are more than welcome.

My friend...... here's what i think. and btw i'm a girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! FYI!!!!!
i am part of the femail species hahahahaha...
ok enough.

here's the deal:

Quit telling yourself that your a pig...... a monster, whatever. because if you keep telling yourself that, you will only feed your mind of that crap, and you'll actually start believe it, and start feeling it and start becoming it. so please please stop.

my guess about your "images" is that you look at girls as possesions, and have like fetish sex with them or something? or i may be wrong, it might be worse, idk.

here's the thing.... i do not think your a pig, or a monster, or whatever. we all have those unclean thoughts, believe it or not, even girls.
But there is in my opinion nothing wrong with you.

your only problem is that, you keep telling yourself these insults, and it's getting worse and worse, and your just not allowing yourself to react.
I'm glad though, that you are finally realizing that you do have unclean thoughts, and are trying to reverse it. so that's a plus.

The first step to reversing this, is to stop insulting yourself, it's not right.
Your not doomed to loneliness and sadness.......
just leave this all behind, start over, and stop thinking those things, if possible, do something else that will take your mind off of these things.

best of luck.... and you are not a bad person.

Please answer seriously. This is an embarassing question. Sorry it's so long?
First, I’d like to make a few things known: I am not posting this because I’m trying to be annoying. I wouldn’t post it if it didn’t really bother me. I also want to say that I’m sorry that this question is so long, and that I am the way I am. Please try to understand that it takes a lot of courage to say these things.

I’m a senior in high school, and I consider myself to be overall respectful of girls. I like them to feel appreciated and loved, and I would never force them to do anything they didn’t want. I myself have only ever had one girlfriend, for two and a half months during my sophomore year. What I want to tell you, however, will completely contradict what I’ve just said. As is expected of a boy/man, I have had a lot of… urges. Ever since I learned what these urges were for, I have always had these provocative images in my mind. These images are usually of beautiful women in some type of bondage, a consensual kind of sexual slavery or being punished with an instrument of sorts (use your imagination…).

For the longest time, I thought that these were just some hot images, but at the same time, I look at these images and think, “You should not be thinking about these things. Girls deserve better than that; particularly from you.” Despite this, I kept on thinking about them until a week or so ago, when I had another of those thoughts. This time was different. Instead of an urge, I just felt a pang of guilt. I didn’t want to think about these things anymore. I started to feel woozy and sick to my stomach, and a little voice in my heart was telling me, “You’re a disgrace to the whole human race; the girls and women in particular.” I have only ever told a select few group of people, and I left my ex- out of it, even though we’re still good friends. I’ve always wondered since my last girlfriend and I broke up, why I can’t get another girlfriend even though everybody thinks I’m good-looking. Now, I’m starting to think that God is trying to tell me, “You don’t deserve a girlfriend, you filthy deviant,” by keeping me single. (I’m not trying to say that God is in the wrong. I just think it might be a sign of some sort.) I mean, not long ago, I learned that a girl I like became single again, and then I had an unclean thought, and the next day, she got back together with her ex-boyfriend.

The worst part about this is, whether I resist my urges or not, they come back even stronger than they were before. But they’re not all good. I had an urge one time in the middle of a lecture, and it just made me feel sick to my stomach because my emotions somehow registered physically. I had to resist the urge to run out of the room and vomit. I know this is disgusting, but it’s no less revolting to me than to you.

The more I think about this, the filthier I feel. But no matter how filthy I feel, I still want it, and that disgusts me. I feel like a misogynistic monster. I feel like I’ve disrespected every girl and woman on the planet whenever I think of these things… and even if I haven’t, I don’t think there are very many girls in this world who would be open to something of that nature, let alone trying it with me. I think that maybe I’m meant to understand that I don’t deserve a girlfriend.

As if that isn’t enough, I’m also scared of what I would be like as a lover, if I ever become a boyfriend again. I get scared that I’ll do something bad or something stupid. I’m afraid if I just do it normally, I’d be so bad that my partner would never want to have it again, and that if I bring it up, the girl I finally end up with won’t want to have anything to do with me again.

And knowing all of this, how can I be a good boyfriend, lover or whatever, with all of this running through my head? Am I doomed to loneliness and sadness because I think like a pig? Am I a monster? Why am I like this? What do you guys think about all of this? Long answers are more than welcome.

you are not a pig, monster, etc. it's completely normal to have that kind of sexual fantasy. I know that I have those kind of urges myself with being tied up. if it was completely bizarre I don't think that there would be bondage and submission in porn. it's normal, so don't worry about it. don't beat yourself up over it, but if you really hate it that much, I'm sure there's some kind of therapy for it. if you need anything, just ask. I hope I helped.

Embarassing question... Sorry it's so long and re-posted... Please answer seriously?
First, I’d like to make a few things known: I am not posting this because I’m trying to be annoying. I wouldn’t post it if it didn’t really bother me. I also want to say that I’m sorry that this question is so long, and that I am the way I am. Please try to understand that it takes a lot of courage to say these things.

I’m a senior in high school, and I consider myself to be overall respectful of girls. I like them to feel appreciated and loved, and I would never force them to do anything they didn’t want. I myself have only ever had one girlfriend, for two and a half months during my sophomore year. What I want to tell you, however, will completely contradict what I’ve just said. As is expected of a boy/man, I have had a lot of… urges. Ever since I learned what these urges were for, I have always had these provocative images in my mind. These images are usually of beautiful women in some type of bondage, a consensual kind of sexual slavery or being punished with an instrument of sorts (use your imagination…).

For the longest time, I thought that these were just some hot images, but at the same time, I look at these images and think, “You should not be thinking about these things. Girls deserve better than that; particularly from you.” Despite this, I kept on thinking about them until a week or so ago, when I had another of those thoughts. This time was different. Instead of an urge, I just felt a pang of guilt. I didn’t want to think about these things anymore. I started to feel woozy and sick to my stomach, and a little voice in my heart was telling me, “You’re a disgrace to the whole human race; the girls and women in particular.” I have only ever told a select few group of people, and I left my ex- out of it, even though we’re still good friends. I’ve always wondered since my last girlfriend and I broke up, why I can’t get another girlfriend even though everybody thinks I’m good-looking. Now, I’m starting to think that God is trying to tell me, “You don’t deserve a girlfriend, you filthy deviant,” by keeping me single. (I’m not trying to say that God is in the wrong. I just think it might be a sign of some sort.) I mean, not long ago, I learned that a girl I like became single again, and then I had an unclean thought, and the next day, she got back together with her ex-boyfriend.

The worst part about this is, whether I resist my urges or not, they come back even stronger than they were before. But they’re not all good. I had an urge one time in the middle of a lecture, and it just made me feel sick to my stomach because my emotions somehow registered physically. I had to resist the urge to run out of the room and vomit. I know this is disgusting, but it’s no less revolting to me than to you.

They don't take long to return, either. Only about an hour or two.

The more I think about this, the filthier I feel. But no matter how filthy I feel, I still want it, and that disgusts me. I feel like a misogynistic monster. I feel like I’ve disrespected every girl and woman on the planet whenever I think of these things… and even if I haven’t, I don’t think there are very many girls in this world who would be open to something of that nature, let alone trying it with me. I think that maybe I’m meant to understand that I don’t deserve a girlfriend.

As if that isn’t enough, I’m also scared of what I would be like as a lover, if I ever become a boyfriend again. I get scared that I’ll do something bad or something stupid. I’m afraid if I just do it normally, I’d be so bad that my partner would never want to have it again, and that if I bring it up, the girl I finally end up with won’t want to have anything to do with me again.

And knowing all of this, how can I be a good boyfriend, lover or whatever, with all of this running through my head? Am I doomed to loneliness and sadness because I think like a pig? Am I a monster? Why am I like this? What do you guys think about all of this? Long answers are more than welcome.

all I can say is wow. . . I really wish I could express all the thoughts and advice running through my head, I will do as best as I can, and if its not good enough. . . . email me. I have more. ok. here it goes.

you would be surprised if you could hear what every other male on the planet is thinking. 99% are thinking the same as you, (the other one percent are under the age of two) Everyone has thoughts like that, if you want to CHANGE it, you have to strive for the change, a pastor would tell you to pray, and read the Bible. a counselor would (depending on their methods) tell you your a sick perv, your mother was mean to you, you walked in on your parents having rough bondage sex, etc. BUT! to me, you are just an average guy. every male on the planet has thoughts like that at one time or another. and those 'urges' and images aren't just for the guys. girls have mental images and fantasies too. don't feel like your the only one. you certainly aren't alone in any way shape or form. I think when you DO find a girl who is all for you, and loves you, and will take you as you REALLY are. you will stop feeling like you do. she will be there to fulfill your fantasies. (you may still have those thoughts for other women, its called lust. at that point I would say go home, and have a good time with your girlfriend if those thoughts bother you).
as for the girlfriend, chill out dude. give it time. when you DO get a girlfriend, make sure to be yourself around her ALWAYS. don't be fake. guys who are fake with girls (and likewise girls who are fake with guys) are the REAL disgrace to the world. if she can't handle who you REALLY are, then she isn't worth it.
you should be able to find a partner who will accept you for EVERYTHING that you really are. if she doesn't like the way you like it, come to an agreement. (I don't like some things, and I made an agreement with my boyfriend. once in a while, when he asks, he can do things he wants to with me. ONCE IN A WHILE. cause he knows I don't like it. but I do it, because HE does, and he means everything to me.) when you do have someone you love, and who loves you, and you both love each other for WHO YOU REALLY ARE. it will work.

please. email me if you have any questions about what I said or if you want to discuss anything further.

Please only give serious answers... bear with me. Very embarassing...?
This is getting a little redundant, but I want everyone to know that I'm not posting this to be annoying. I've already asked this before, but I need more answers.

First of all, I want to say that I'm sorry that this question is so long. I'd also like to apologize for being the way that I'm about to describe. Please keep in mind how embarrassing this is and please respond only with serious answers.

Okay. I consider myself to be respectful when it comes to girls, despite not having much experience dating (I'm a senior in High School and had a girlfriend in my sophomore year for two months.). I like the girl that I'm with to feel appreciated and loved, but what I'm about to say completely contradicts what I'm telling you. For the longest time, I have had urges, which, as you are all aware, is expected of a guy. But, for me, it's different. Ever since I knew what sex was, I have had these images in my head. They are of a very provocative nature. Mostly, they are of beautiful women that are in different types of bondage. Sometimes it would be a form of (consensual) sexual slavery, and sometimes the woman is being punished with an instrument of some kind. (Use your imagination...)

Since I can remember, I've just seen these things as some really hot images. But I also find myself looking at this and I think, "This is so wrong. I shouldn't think of girls this way. How many girls would actually want to participate in something like that?" I continued to debate with myself like this, but I eventually got to the point where, if I so much as saw a girl trussed up in any way, well, I was constantly having urges. But recently, I had another thought concerning images like these, and it was the last straw for me. I actually feel ashamed of everything I've ever thought to that effect. I actually felt so guilty about it today that I actually felt sick to my stomach. I've been wondering since me and my girlfriend broke up (after two months. I never told her about any of this) two years ago, why I haven't been able to get another girlfriend. I mean, everybody tells me that I'm good-looking, but nobody seems to want to go out with me. I'm starting to wonder if my being single is God's way of punishing me for thinking about such unclean things. I mean, just three days ago, a girl I was interested in asking out became single again, I had an unclean thought, and the next day, she got back together with her ex-boyfriend.

I can't help but be curious about these things, but they make me feel like I'm some kind of filthy freak. I feel like I've defiled the face of every girl and woman every time I have one of these thoughts. Whether I control it or not, it's slowly causing me to hate myself. And even if there wasn't anything wrong with the things I think about, I don't think that there is a girl alive who would want to try it out, let alone with someone like me. I think that they would just see me as some kind of monster. And even if they didn't, maybe God is also trying to tell me that I don't deserve them.

All of this is capped off by the fact that sex scares the hell out of me. I am often filled with the fear that I’ll do something wrong when I finally have it; the fear that I’m so terribly bad at it that the person I finally have it with never wants to have it again. And how can I be respectful to any girl with this stuff running through my head? And why would any girl want to have it with a filthy pervert? What can I do? I just want somebody to tell me their opinion about this. I don't want to be seen as some kind of monstrosity.

People have different thoughts and ideas about sex. Sometimes it's a fantasy thing... There's a huge market for the type of things you described, so obviously you're not the only one with these thoughts. They are very private, though and I so I can see how you would think you should be ashamed. But really, the only way you should be ashamed is if you force this upon someone who doesn't want to participate. Don't beat yourself up, okay? You're not a filthy freak. You're a teenage boy. And someday, you'll have a relationship with someone who will be free and open with you about their sexual desires and you'll see that it's not anything to be ashamed of, really, as long as you keep it under control.
As far as sex goes, you can't really mess it up. And some girls would think it was fun to be tied up. Just remember to tell them to let you know if they need to stop or feel uncomfortable. Don't stress over it, okay? God isn't punishing you. You're punishing yourself. No one knows what you're thinking unless you tell them.